I had written to "Cousin John", my mother's cousin, from London, saying I was coming to Edinburgh and would like to meet him.... His reply was "You appear to have come to this country well prepared even unto the remotest degrees of kinship..." Well! I decided I would not bother with him, but I did phone when I got to Edinburgh and although he was insufferably pompous his wife was absolutely charming and very welcoming and I had a wonderful time there. They led a very social life and every meal was an occasion.
From Scotland I returned to London until it was time to move on. I had booked to sail home from Gibraltar, and planned to visit Spain on the way.